She doesn't give me any respect. They treated you very badly during the relationship or marriage. My ex still loves me but I don’t want to be together again. I cannot even begin to imagine what it would feel like as my break up was 3 years. So I told her that I'm done wasting my time and I will break my computer before I ever send her another email. So I wanted to share. One of the likeliest reasons why your ex boyfriend is ignoring you is because he’s also still trying to move on himself. A more obvious reason behind why your ex could be ignoring you is that maybe he’s just plain angry. Maybe she DOES NOT want to ever see the pictures as they’ll bring back memories. That she is not interested in any sort of friendship with you. WOMEN are emotional creatures and for an insane reason they listen to their emotons OF THE PRESENT. WHAT'S HER PROBLEM? I'll make this quick. Not just to me, but not even to her own family! There is residual anger from the breakup. IS IS HOW THEY FEEL IN THE HERE AND NOW. Information that I found out from her sister. She doesn't even appear to have a heart anymore. I don't know your ex, but from what I'm reading, you want something from her that she doesn't want to give. Now it's about finding out WHY SHE STILL TOTALLY IGNORES ME! I just find it sad that after 10 years together, she can't even be mature enough to respond. I noticed this happened after I pulled I’ve never seen her like this. Maybe she couldn’t care less about the pictures. Why is it so important to get those pictures back to her anyway? I was with a girl for 2 years, she dumped me, 6 months later called and wanted to be "friends" even cried in front me asking for a friendship, I told her I couldn't, it was too hard. I just got a note from my ex-girlfriends sister. BREAKUPS SURE SUCK. During that month, we saw each other frequently due to camps and stuff. She doesn't. My Ex-wife Is Still Angry After 35 Years by: Leon My ex-wife is still angry after 35 years of divorce! Found out a year later, she was married. John if you didn't throw away the pictures can you please send them to me? But I don't want to feel like lifelong enemies either. I definitely don't want to be in My ex-girlfriends life if I'm not welcome. But i still didnt contact him(it was really hard not to). I can think of only two reasons an ex would avoid any contact in the way you describe, even after years have gone by. A year later, she called, wanting to "meet up for drinks". About a year ago, I got a text from an ex telling me he wanted my advice on something. my thoughts exactly....why are you emailing her? We were together for 10 years. I've made it clear to her that I didn't want her back. She was in another relationship, and had been for over a year at this time. So I tried to do the right thing and get them back to her. So if she responds I'll just go from there. It's been 3 years bro. So I saw no harm in saying a friendly hello a few times a year. have you done a "read receipt" on the ones you have sent? She claimed he was just a friend. That sealed the deal. Maybe her new boyfriend requested that she not respond to you? I'm certain that she only finds it so easy to ignore me because she has another man in her life. We had a good relationship that turned sour quickly. he texted me everyday begging me back for a month and i ignored it, becasue it hurt too much and i thought i was over it. I'd want this stuff back too, especially if one of the members of her family has died. Hey Sky, I've never been in a relationship as long as yours but perhaps I can draw a parallel. Could be a number of things, but her silence says enough. Imagine you walk into a room full of women and you see a beautiful woman. Well I accepted her choice, and now I have a nice new towel and DVD’s (I threw out the toothbrush and her dog food). In addition, she went out to Six Flags with him and his friends last week. Ask yourself why you are really contacting her? Can you tell me why? I don't know why Jenn is the way she is. I know you are only wanting to do the right thing. I just got a note from my ex-girlfriends sister. But our relationship was still unrepairable at that point. It was her anger, in large part, that helped drive me away originally. WOMEN are emotional creatures and for an insane reason they listen to their emotons OF THE PRESENT. Hard lines...but it's the only way I can move on and look forward. My brother doesn't talk to me hardly either anymore. Could be a number of things, but her silence says enough. If not, then perhaps she wasn't the girl you thought she was. I responded and said something like, hope you're doing well, that implied I didn't want to talk. I did decide to not bother with her anymore after getting no response for such a long period of time. I'll make this quick. He blamed me and said he had been unhappy for years. However after zero response I emailed her sister. I had always treated her with respect and we did have a great relationship, so I thought. This is a choice I've made and it will be this way forever. On one hand, you may still think of your ex husband as a person you love very much. I don't need to be a jerk just because she acted like one. I even told her in the lastest letter that It's fine if she doesn't want to be friends and I understand if she wants nothing to do with me. We had a good relationship that turned sour quickly. Apparently my ex is not the same person anymore. She doesn't want to have anything to do with you. The Answer to the Question Why Does My Ex-Boyfriend Ignore Me and Whether or Not There Is Still Hope for You. Here are 7 reasons your ex might pop up months (or even years!) I sent her an email letting her know that and asking what to do with these photos. However after zero response I emailed her sister. 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